Why are you people so awful? I don't think there's a worse place for a trans person to be than this board. You're so full of hate towards yourselves and others, why are you like this? There's no value in your hatred, you're just bad people. I feel more comfortable on boards that are openly transphobic and would want nothing more than for me to be dead than I do casually browsing this board. You fucking people make me sick, I don't know why you're all so rotten.

i want to talk about dysphoria and what it means for each of you.
for the longest time i was afraid because i thought i knew, deep down, that i was faketrans and i had no dysphoria. i think i just didn't recognize it as such.
i had immense body dysmorphia that stunted my social life. i repressed my sexuality. i was always so scared to be perceived as an agressor. i felt a deep shame and trauma over wanting to be a woman (not because of mysogyny but because i knew it was taboo), and yes, i fetishized these desire (agp).
what dysphoria to you anons?

>[Dierdre] McCloskey was born Donald and lived as a man until age 53. Married for thirty years, and parent of two children, she transitioned in 1995, among the first of academics to do so, and wrote about her experience in a New York Times Notable Book of the Year, Crossing: A Memoir (1999, University of Chicago Press).

Last time on /st4t/!

>>35710356

Qott: If you're in a relationship, how's it going, and if not, what are your relationship goals?

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>cheating on my boyfriend with a few other guys
>send one of them a text that says "I love you... I miss you... when can I see you again"
>or at least, I thought I did
>I accidentally sent the text to my boyfriend
>thankfully the message was generic enough in content that he thought the message was intended for him
>but if the message had been more specifically aimed at another person... that would have been bad
Sisters, use this as a lesson. If you're going to have clandestine encounters, download an entirely separate program for those guys/girls like Kik or something. It's far too risky to just send them regular text messages because you might send a message meant for them to your boyfriend instead.

God damn it Liberty Valentine just said she's getting vaginoplasty. I'm done dating or fapping to trans

Weekend celebrations Edition
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Goal of the thread: Make a shopping list of things that you need, consider if there is any self care things you might be missing!
Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!

>What is this thread for?
Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.
Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.
>Why is this thread /lgbt/?
Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.
>Notes to consider:
Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:
WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION
>Note on advice
Generic advice won't necessarily help you in particular, but for those it does it is an essential foundation to build future progress on, not a miracle cure. Do not underestimate the effects subtle changes to your lifestyle can have. Try first, keep us posted on your progress, build from there.

We are *always* short on self help resources, so if anything was useful to you, let us know!
Since the OP is getting too long I moved all resources into their own post, see below!

## RESOURCE LINKS:

Resource link paste: https://sntry.cc/sig-resources-2024-04
General advice from Anons: https://sntry.cc/sig-tips-2024-04
Posts from other sites (markdown format): https://sntry.cc/sig-posts-2024-04

How did you get through yoir babytrans phase?
How did you deal with worrying about never passing?
Were there any signs or hints that you can think of in hindsight that might've told you ygmi?

I want a trans gf so bad... I'm sad that I will never have a cute trans gf I can play vidya with, watch movies and cuddle...