>>2621341stick it to the wall after you suck it and get it nice and sloppy, lube up and slowly and gently just kinda tease your butthole and ass with it for a while, like your top is playing around with you. wiggle and squirm it in, again, slowly, and open up little by little until you're all the way around it. Don't try to go with too much in and out right away, keep it deep and focus on the tip, try to feel it. move around with small outs and ins until you find a spot that really makes you go "oh!" as you open and loosen up a bit you can increase depth and stroke length. don't tighten up, stay loose (be sure to shit before you do this, btw). find a pace and depth you like until you can get yourself to cum from just the dildo (helps if you imagine someone you want to fuck you). Hope that helps.